Our Rates

Counselling & Mediation

(Toni McErlane is the primary counsellor and mediation facilitator for Restorative Relationships; other teachers are often involved with workshops and trainings)



One on One Support: $ 100/ hour



Couples Support: $120 / 75 minutes
Three and a half day couples intensive (at your location): $2,300



Mediation $120/hr
Family Restorative Circles (2 hours): $195
Family Four Day Intensive (at your location): $1,975
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR): $897



3-hour session: $360


Community Dispute Resolution

Restorative Circle Process (to resolve out-of-court disputes):  $120/hour (est. 6-12 hours)
Mediation The conventional process of supporting people to come to agreements that work for everyone: $120/hour



Trainings and Workshops

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Community Groups / Classes

Nonviolent Communication Foundation One Weekly Class (2.5hrs/week for 8 weeks): $250/person
Nonviolent Communication Weekend Workshop (9am-5pm Sat & Sun): $250 per person or $480 for couples
Violence Prevention Groups (2.5hrs/week for 8 weeks): $250 per person

Custom Organisation Trainings & Workshops

We provide trainings in Communication & Collaborative leadership skills, and other mediation services. Our fees will depend upon the particular needs of the organisation. Please contact us to discuss.

Options for Lower-Income Clients

If your issues are associated with a physical injury, or sexual abuse or assault, then you may qualify for fully subsidized support by ACC. Contact me to discuss this further.
You may qualify for a Consellingn Disability Allowance through WINZ. You can check your eligibility and get instructions on how to apply for this support here on the WINZ website.
You may also consider discussing your issues with your GP, who, in some instances, may be able to refer you for free psychological assistance through your local DHB or PHO.


Click Here for a variety of low-fee counselling options around New Zealand.

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