Our Fees

(Toni McErlane is the primary counsellor and facilitator for Restorative Relationships)



One on One Support: $ 100/ hour


Couples Support: $120 / 75 minutes
Three and a half day couples intensive (at your location): $2,300


Mediation $120/hr
Family Restorative Circles (2 hours): $195
Family Four Day Intensive (at your location): $1,975
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR): $897


Trainings in Communication & Collaborative leadership skills:
(Our fees for these workshops vary and are relative to the criteria and requirements of the particular organisation)


3-hour session: $360

Community Dispute Resolution

Restorative Circle Process (to resolve out-of-court disputes):  $120/hour (est. 6-12 hours)
Mediation The conventional process of supporting people to come to agreements that work for everyone: $120/hour

Community Groups / Classes

Nonviolent Communication Foundation One Weekly Class (2.5hrs/week for 8 weeks): $250/person
Nonviolent Communication Weekend Workshop (9am-5pm Sat & Sun): $250 per person or $480 for couples
Violence Prevention Groups (2.5hrs/week for 8 weeks): $250 per person

Private / Organization Workshops

Negotiable — Please contact us

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Options for lower-income clients

If your issues are associated with a physical injury, or sexual abuse or assault, then you may qualify for fully subsidized support by ACC. Contact me to discuss this further.
You may qualify for a Consellingn Disability Allowance through WINZ. You can check your eligibility and get instructions on how to apply for this support here on the WINZ website.
You may also consider discussing your issues with your GP, who, in some instances, may be able to refer you for free psychological assistance through your local DHB or PHO.


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